What if one call could change your life?

When I was obese, I was drained, miserable, emotionally unfulfilled and overburdened.

I was married to a man who felt more like a third child, than a partner. 

Over time he became emotionally abusive and on a few occasions physically as well. 

I was trying to hold things together for the kids and although I was dissatisfied in the relationship, I still loved him.

I listened to the lies of his words, instead of 'hearing' the truth of his actions.

Empty were his platitudes and promises.

I was holding in mind what I thought he was capable of and who he was at inherently at his core (we are all good) and ignoring what he had actually become.

My purpose and my passions were dying because I was drained. 

I felt totally unsupported, unvalued and unseen.

My husband had zero interest in my work or success.

He was holding out for me to fail and give up.

I never capitulated.

But I wasn't having any fun either.

I was working so hard for very little financial return and then felt guilty that I was taking so much time and energy away from being present to my children.

I felt torn, pulled in so many directions and striving so hard for so little reward.

Like a domestic slave.

Every moment of my life was consumed with either cooking, cleaning, taking care of children, working on my computer, serving clients or answering e-mails.

Zero fun, zero adventure. 

I was completely obsessed with my business because it was the only place I felt I could accomplish anything of lasting value.

Everything else I did was invisible.

Mothering is invisible.

Cooking is invisible 

Cleaning is invisible.

All never ending thankless jobs in a society that has lost touch with what we really are and what really matters.

Since I could never be done, I felt very little feeling of satisfaction or accomplishment.

My life was one settled for, not the one I dreamed of. 

Then one day I woke up obese in what seemed like overnight.

The fat had a message for me. 

I was carrying much more than excess physical weight, but the weight of the world on my shoulders too.

I spent 4 years unraveling it all and used my weight loss journey as a catalyst for life transformation.

I didn't just drop 12 dress sizes, I dropped what was draining me and I am now designing my dream life instead of living a life settled for.

I've not only done it, I am still doing it and I want you to come on the journey with me.

While yes, you would like to be thin, the truth is you want more than that. 

Something inside of you knows that you were born for more, but right now you feel weighed down by the circumstances of your life and feel like the life you were really meant to live is about to pass you by.